Wuhuuu...It seems this little blog is nominated for a Lezzy Award! Never thought that would happen...I didn't even nominate myself;)

If you think this blog deserves to move on in the Lezzy Awards, be sure to nominate/vote for me. I'm guessing that I'm nominated in the category of "Best Lesbian Humour Blog"!

From The Lesbian Lifestyle website:

How do the nominations work: The nomination system will allow you to nominate 1 blog per category. You will be able to nominate your favorite blogs once every 24 hours. You will nominate the blogs of your choice by adding the URL, not the title/name of the blog to the nomination field. Nominations will last from February 15-22 at 12:00 am EDT. The top 3 nominated blogs will then go on to the final voting round which will begin on February 22nd at 12:00 pm EDT.

How voting works: As with nominations you will be allowed 1 vote per category within a 24 hour period. This is being tracked by email accounts so that more than one person can vote from the same computer/IP address. Voting will go from February 22 at 12:00 am EDT to March 2 at 12:00 am EDT. Votes will be tallied and the winners of all 11 categories will be announced on Wednesday March 3rd live on The Lesbian Lounge Podcast.

I joined the hype on Twitter! Not that my life is in any way interesting or worth twittering about, but one has to be cool and in fashion;)

If you (for whatever reason) want to follow my so-called life, click the bird!



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Hope you are all well and enjoying the spring-time!

Hello everyone,

Long time no see! It's been a hell of a Fall for me this year. My girlfriend left me and went back home to Norway, and I had to move back in with my parents for a short period of time (that's the plan!), so I've been devastated and I still am.
I love my ex girlfriend more than anything in the world, so naturally I've been going through a lot of chaotic emotions. We all know what it's like, and only time heels it a little.

I hope to be back in 2009, and I wish you all a very happy New Years, and be careful! Take good care of the ones you love, they are the reason you live.

Best wishes
Mia:)

I will be updating my layout the next couple of days...So don't panic if the page looks funny on your screen (nothing is wrong with ur comp...:p)
Hope you are all enjoying your summer :)

Hey all!

I have been promoting a few things lately, all relevant in my opinion. I get a lot of requests to promote all sorts of stuff in the LGBT niche (non-profit of course), and that is great. But I cannot promote everything here. You have to remember this is a personal blog and if I promote constantly, my readers will disappear.
I will promote once in a while for you, but I have to go through the various suggestions and some might not get a mention. I'm very sorry, but that's how it works! Unless you wanna pay me...hehe;)

Hope you all had a great weekend!

Best wishes from Mia

To all my dear readers (and those who couldn't care less)
I am in need... I am looking for a BlogAds sponsor in my niche (aka the gay one!). Like a lot of people in blogging, I am a greedy pig who wants to earn a little from advertizing on my beloved blog. Yes, I know it's a lot to ask, BUT if you in any way feel sorry for me, please please contact me via mail: defencelessqueer@gmail.com
Anywho, if you don't give a rat's arse, please ignore this post!

Mia

I'm sorry for the lack of updates here, but my beloved granny passed away this Saturday, 91-years-old. I'm still a bit shaken from the whole thing, since I have never seen a dead person before, and never thought I was going to see my granny die before my eyes. So the updates will be kinda slow the next week.

Hope you will all return when I'm back!

Best regards Mia

Just a short message to wish you all a very merry holiday season, and a great new year! Be safe out there and take care. Check back for updates soon, and thank you all for reading my little blog:) I hope it will continue in the forthcoming year.

Best Regards Mia (licious)

I'm FINALLY done with my new template (well almost, it can always look better...), and I'm pretty darn pleased with the result!

Since I deleted my old template, all my affiliate links have disappeared (well done for saving Mia. Duh), so if your link is suddenly gone from the list, please write it in the commentbox, and I will add you again right away.

If you have a comment on the new template, bad or good, feel free to scream it out! Suggestions are always welcome. Btw, the searchbox in the top right corner does not work for some reason. If you know how to fix this, you will make a queer extremely happy (obviosuly you will have to inform me on the solution, otherwise no happy gay on this page...)

Aaaanywho, welcome back bitches.

Mia

Alright, I'm not sure I'm doing this the right way, but here comes the rules of the game;

- We have to post these rules before we give you the facts.
- Players start with eight random facts/habits about themselves.
- People who are tagged need to write their own blog about their eight things and post these rules.
- At the end of your blog post, you need to choose eight people to get tagged and list their names.
- Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them they’re tagged, and to read your blog.

And now my 8 random facts:

1. I pick my nose too often, and my girlfriend hates it
2. I admit that I'm extremely geeky with my computer, and I would rather sit in front of my laptop than party on a friday night....
3. I secretly lust after dumb blondes, even tho it's not cool or even politically correct (whatever)
4. I'm a royalist, and I watch every darn wedding, silverwedding, birth etc. on tv!
5. I dont eat any fruit, nor vegetables (I'm gonna die, toothless, at 30 :s)
6. I'm afraid of horses (they have big teeth)
7. I'm super-shallow, although I try my best to be non-shallow...
8. I'm an extremely boring person

And now the winners:

Bullshattuck
Dorothy Surrenders
Sara's Darkness
Just a Girl In Short Shorts
Lesbiatopia
Lionboi Blues & News
Lesbianrules
Hahn At Home

And I know my updates are slow these days. But you have to understand, this is summer, and I suddenly got myself a life since I have 3 weeks off work (IKEA very kindly agreed to give me time off, in order to re-establish my relationship with the girlfriend, who's been working hard on her exams the last month or so = No sex for me the last 30 days. Imagine my joy when I finally got laid again...)

Anywho, I spend my Saturday evening at a party, sober as hell, with people I don't know, and an extremely drunk and annoying girlfriend. And why didn't I drink?! Well IKEA had me working 12 hours on Friday and 9 on Saturday, so I couldn't feel my legs, and thereby figured alcohol wasn't the answer to my troubles. The girlfriend pushed all my bad buttons and went from happy drunk to crybaby in about 1 1/2 second (no I did NOT hit her, I just told her off...)
Thank God she fell asleep as soon as her head hit the pillow. The snoring didn't bother me AT ALL... At least I didn't have to listen to her whining (usually I'm the whiner, so maybe I should have just packed it in.)

Ahhh you gotta love them women ;) I LOVE BEING QUEER (and here...)

I didnt have an interesting weekend, so this is just gonna ME ME ME...Bare with a queerling!

Top 5 Bad Moods This Weekend:
1. Denmark vs. Sweden footy game (pissed me well off)
2. Working all bloody weekend @ IKEA (poor me)
3. Nagging girlfriend!
4. I want to SHOP
5. Ex's

Top 5 Bad Habbits:
1. Picking my nose
2. Pretending to not hear my girlfriends nagging/uninteresting info
3. Sleeping untill 11
4. Eating too much crap when I wanna sport a hot bod in my bikini
5. Spending too much money

Top 5 Wonderings:
1. Why will I never get completely satisfied?!?!
2. Will Björk ever shut the fuck up?
3. Will anyone donate a chihuahua to me?! Please?!
4. Where can I get those hawt boardshorts I just saw online?!
5. Is my ass fat?

It's just impossible for me to have a decent, normal friendship with another lesbian! Sorry me, but barracuda I have tried MANY times now, and I'm gonna quit it...
First of all, there's always gonna be some sort of wondering if that friend is attracted to you, or the other way around. Not neccesarely in a bad way, but you find yourself wondering about this girl in ways you perhaps shouldn't! Yes Im aware that I can only speak for myself here, but since this is my blog, I say what I want!
Even tho I have a girlfriend (I love to bits btw) I find myself unusually curious about my gay friend. To me it seems that there will always be some sort of tension between two friends who are both lesbian.
Second of all: THE DAMN JALOUSY! If one of the girls fall in love with her friend, and this particular friend is in a relationship (I'm not saying this happened to me, Im not that selfabsorbed after all). That is just bound to cause a huge drama and the friendship will most likely end.
Sometimes I find the whole lesbian scene too darn twisted. Everyone has been with eachother, and you'll only get out of this if you move far away! Maybe it's just cause I live in a pretty small country, but I am sick of it right now...
Give me a straight girl, and that's a proper friend who aint trying to steal your girlfriend, who wont fall in love with you and best of all; She wont be involved with the "lesbian scene" that you yourself so proudly has a history in...

Lesbians *rolleyes*